Marvin's Ideas

How can you help someone who doesn’t want your help? Offering a helping hand is a very good virtue that I have. There are many people who have benefited my help. I do this just because it is a passion of my heart. I just couldn’t afford to see helpless people especially those who seems to be aged ones, our grandparents. Until then I was able to meet this young lady who seemed to be in great need of help. I was just thinking that she wants my help because she was physically impaired. This girl was in seating on a wheelchair. Her right leg was missing and it seems that she was recently being hospitalized. She was trying to steer his wheels to navigate through a seemingly step way. I felt pity on her and I know she’s tired and was about to lose his grip. I run for a help and took a hand at the wheelchair and guide her to the place she wanted to be. But as we reached the place, she was getting angry of me because why did I help her. I explained everything to her and she was really angry because as she says “I don’t want your help. Don’t you see that I can do it? Now go and leave me”. I was sad upon hearing those things from her and I was so downed that it was all about helping someone. I was kind of traumatized of what I experienced and I don’t think I’d be more generous in the future.

How I wish this I can grouch whenever this foolish people gets in my house every day. A got this two persons from the neighborhood who are very noisy in a sense that they used to be gossipers ever since I met them. I was still a very small guy that time when these people occupied our neighbors flat. That is where it started that our day haven’t been so peaceful because they used to be our nearest “friends” and that’s why they got to visit us daily for a bit of storytelling which will to a very dirty gossips. Anyways, in our culture we are supposed to be hospitable even-though there are times that we met this kind of people. But I am hoping to not rebuke this people soon because right now I am full with them and I just trying to control myself to the last drop of my patience.

“Be prepared”, this is what my mother always tells me every time I leave the house. I always answer her “yes” because I don’t really understand why she always wanted me to be prepared. Recently, we had very good conversation and with that I was able to ask her about my concern on why she always tells me to be prepared. So I asked her with a very interested looks on my face. I told her, “Ma, I every time I leave the house you always says to me that to be prepared. Why is it so that you keep on repeating it for so many times? ”. I know that she was surprised and at the same time she tends to show me that she cares. Mother said “Hmmm, Well! You need to be prepared so that you won’t be surprised of the things that might happen to you. I tell you, everything is not a surprise. It’s just a matter of expecting the worst and prepare for it”. I was confused on what she wants to say but she told me that when I’m on the actual scenario of a real-life event, I will be able to realize that things are worth preparing for.

Sometimes I don’t share my thought to someone because I think that I might lose it and I will regret for my actions. But I just realize the mere fact that when I share this things to a person, I am not really losing up those ideas. What I am doing is just spreading it throughout but I am not giving away the things that I have. It is a big reality in the life a teacher. A teacher used to facilitates us with our learning at school but in the process of sharing what they know, they haven’t lost anything they have. I mean the knowledge that they share with the student wasn’t gone during the process of education.

As I listen to the daily news about what’s going on with our environment, I always have my own feelings and opinions about the current events happening to us daily. Talking about AIDS who’s currently on its way to kill the life of its victims, it is very alarming for the many. Thinking so much about these matters, how these individuals do got this poisonous devil in their body? Considering the thought about sex that has been the best way on how these things go this way right now. It is so disappointing that supposedly this activity is done with the essence of love and responsibility to fulfill the task for humanity but what happened is that people tend to act same way as an animal do. We all know that there is this thing called as “Morality”. Everyone knows this but how did happened that so many individuals is currently suffering from this disease. In would only mean that they don’t really know their partner, and obviously they’re just roaming around and see if there someone at the corner who’s on the mode to do the thing. I know it’s been the really of many. I had talked with several people who used to know me and who are very close to me. I know a lot of people who spend times on the bed with somebody just for the sake of pleasure. The sad thing there is that they don’t care about morality and everything else. Instead they only need to release the heat building up inside. For me it is a great crisis towards the morality of those people. These things are considered to be sacred and should be done only by a man and woman bonded together by the marriage. And also even married people should consider that it is not a thing to enjoy but a task be done for humanity. I’m trying to share this because I think this is the right way of living the life of a real human. I learned this when I was in college because there is a subject in our school that has been always with us until the last year of our schooling. We don’t act like an animal because man is made highest among the creatures.